Rejection or Redirection?

I have a great friend to thank for bringing this to my attention and insisting that rejection leads to redirection. She has consistently told me in recent months that the rejection I am feeling now is only a redirection to good things for me, and as painful as it may be now, in the longContinue reading “Rejection or Redirection?”

5 Things To Remember When It’s Over.

One essential part of life in general, is knowing yourself well enough to know how you are going to react to something. If you are in tune with yourself, you can go through the motions, knowing you will come out of it OK in good time. The time it takes really does not make aContinue reading “5 Things To Remember When It’s Over.”

Life’s Little Love Lesson.

Love is the most complicated human emotion that one can ever experience. It has us on our knees begging for that love to be returned, for that safe and secure feeling in the presence of another being. It is simply electrifying when there is a spark, a soul connection and a growing love for anotherContinue reading “Life’s Little Love Lesson.”

He’s Just Not That Into You.

5 signs that the person you are investing in, is just not that into you. 5 simple signs that he, for some reason, is just not that into you. You being beautiful- inside and out, you being a empath- compassionate and understanding of his needs, you being a motivated and driven woman with confidence, andContinue reading “He’s Just Not That Into You.”

Be Better, Never Bitter.

In my opinion, there is nothing good about feeling or being bitter towards a situation that hurt you. What do you achieve by being bitter? Nothing, other than tormenting and disrupting your own energy and peace. When we find ourselves in a situation that cause us to feel hurt, naturally, our emotions can and doContinue reading “Be Better, Never Bitter.”

Players Only Love You When They’re Playing.

Yes, these are lyrics to a great Fleetwood Mac song, but nevertheless, I couldn’t agree more with this simple statement. It may have taken me at least half of my twenties and a couple of my teen years to realise, but it really is true. When there is a game to be played, and itContinue reading “Players Only Love You When They’re Playing.”

Life After Loss

It’s not about getting over it. It’s about learning to live with it. 27th February 2018 was the day that my life changed forever. There will always be a life before and after, who I am now is different to the person I was before- in all of the sad and heartbreaking ways, but alsoContinue reading “Life After Loss”

Always Choose You

I think it’s crazy the way we prioritise our relationships before ourselves. Consciously, we know that we should put ourselves first, but we know that there are stages where we don’t. When we have somebody to share our lives with, they gain status in our life- we suddenly feel this obligation to include them, butContinue reading “Always Choose You”

5 Keys To A Lasting Relationship

Relationships are not always plain sailing. They don’t always last, and sometimes it is a simple case of not being right for one another. In my experience, I have found that there are some factors that are so important within a relationship for me, and the absence of them can cause disruption. We should allContinue reading “5 Keys To A Lasting Relationship”